There’s so many villains especially in Disney and even though they might be evil they have their moments which make them lovable. Which Disney Villain is your favorite?
My personal favorite Disney Villain is Captain Hook. He is just a funny villain who tries attempt after attempt to capture Peter Pan. It’s even more hilarious while he’s freaking out when the crocodile comes around with the ticking clock still in its belly. Smeeee! 🤣🤣🤣
Personally thank you to Steven Spielberg’s JAWS I’ve always had a fear of Sharks.
I saw the movie JAWS with my dad on vhs when I was 5 years old. I loved it and when you’re a kid and you watch animals or monsters it’s pretty cool. What kid doesn’t like animals or monsters?
I went on watching every JAWS film made after seeing the first one and they were also the only horror movies my mom would let me watch.
There’s just something utterly fascinating about sharks and yeah they seem like really scary creatures especially with everything the media produces but they also help out our eco system especially with jellyfish. Sharks eat them and that’s a good thing otherwise the ocean would be over populated with jellyfish.
October is here and many of us have already started decorating for Halloween since August which is really cool. However, my personal preference is to start when the air gets cooler and humidity is no more.
I decorate small and cute mostly because decorations add up and can be costly and not to mention electricity.
Here’s a picture of the front porch with a bit of Halloween decoration.
Safe words are one of the most important conversations you will have when negotiating with your Top. Safe words are what lets the Top know when to slow down or stop during a scene.
It’s so important to have that talk before playing with anyone and if you’re uncomfortable talking open and honestly about this then you really should not be playing at all because not only will you end up hurting yourself but you will hurt those around you and that is not okay.
The basic safe words that are used are the traffic light system of Green, Yellow, and Red. We all know that Green is go, yellow means slow down especially if you might have been introduced to something new. Red means stop meaning that scene is over period no exceptions and aftercare should start right away.
What happens if our safe words are violated?
I will be sharing my own experience as yes I’ve had a safe word violated. I will stop here and say TRIGGER WARNING DO NOT GO FURTHER IF YOU ARE TRIGGERED
This is what happened in my own experience with safe words being violated.
I was playing privately with someone and this was six months after I had gotten to know them and played publicly with and I felt safe with person because they had not ignored my safe words until this moment.
We were in a regular scene I was being flogged and spanked just good impact play. He then stopped and was grabbing something else and I didn’t know what it was I was already in my happy place. The only thing he said was to relax and breathe and then I felt it. I then panicked which turned into a panic attack I screamed no, red, stop. He did not listen and I was crying with my head deep inside the pillow. He had inserted without consent a butt plug in me. I had literally froze after crying I lost all emotions I was now in survive mode of finish the damn scene and get the fuck out. I did not know what else to do when it was over and I was finally at home I texted him not to contact me anymore and that I do not want to play with you anymore. That you violated me. He never contacted me again and I only saw him once at a club event which yes my insides freaked out but I remained calm and didn’t go near him at all. All I will say is that Karma did do justice for me.
Since that did happen I’ve been extremely picky who I play with and who I’m around. I do not play privately with anyone anymore it must be in a safe public space with lots of people around. I could care less about others seeing my naked flaws I’d rather be around others while playing. Then I know there are witnesses and it’s safe.
Thankfully others out there have shared some wonderful information about safety and safe words.
I highly recommend playing after you’ve taken the time to really know someone and please play in a public dungeon with DM’s. Always do your research about each venue making sure they comply with safety and the well being of others that is most important
Have you ever had your safe words disregarded or ignored? If you’re okay to share I invite you to please share in the comments.
I am going to leave here a few links on consent and negotiations and the importance of safe words.
When you start writing a blog of any kind you want to contribute in the things you have participated in or things you’ve seen. Then there tends to be this whole weight of what to write, what to share, and how to share it.
After seeing how many kinksters and educators have shared so much with the communities online it weights on my mind and the thoughts of “This has been shared and talked about so much”. First it’s beautiful how much is shared online and virtually. It’s great learning so many things whether it’s a new topic or something someone has experienced or something someone has done for a long period of time.
I have so much information from my own experiences and my flaw is trying to expedite them and get them into actual word format.
It is my own anxiety about it because in my mind the thoughts of “this has been done a million times” and “I don’t want pity for what I’ve been through”. That’s where I mostly stop and end up not putting anything out there. I know that I’m the one that has to fix those thought sand feelings and just do it! Put it out there because well I want to and hopefully it’ll go well. If it doesn’t then well I still put myself out there.
I’m tired of seeing the lying ads of trump for his stupid re election campaign. I’m tired of seeing so much hatred and racism going on.
I’m tired of politics using their religion for causes because it shouldn’t be used and hello separation of state and church!!! Leave your damn religion to your fucking self! I don’t want to hear your man made bullshit garbage! Just stop it!
Since March yes my kids are with me 24/7 yes I’m a stay at home mom and I love my kids but I miss alone time just me and I barely get any time to myself.
I’m just worn thin these days I have no energy for exercising i try to exercise maybe twice a week and then I get depressed about it and just say fuck it.
I genuinely hope others out there are having a better time of this 😥
I’m really geeky about things and a little bit kinky! I’m a full time mom of two teenagers and I live on the East Coast. I’m very active with my children and advocate for them as they both have special needs. I love movies especially horror, sci-fi, fantasy, and drama. I like coloring, Godzilla, coffee, painting (mostly acrylic), video games, reading, anime (especially Black Butler).
If you took the time to check out my blog thank you so much.